Men want to have a satisfying sexual
life with their partners, unfortunately, not all couples are able to achieve a
great sex life. Lovemaking is important in every relationship because it is a
medium for couples to connect with each other physically and emotionally. It is
important to satisfy your partner in bed, to give her the pleasure she
deserves. There are several women out there, who aren’t enjoying satisfying sex
with their partners. Don't believe me? Ask them yourselves.
Now, it doesn't mean that they don't like sex
or they wouldn’t want to reach cloud nine
during sex-they would love that so very much. It just; no one (man) has been patient
or technical enough to give them that elusive pleasure. It's easy for you as a
guy to achieve an orgasm. ..Hell! You can practically do it in your sleep. However
it’s a whole different ball gain when it comes to women.
As a man you might feel inadequate/down when
you fail to give her “earth shattering orgasms” but it is important not to feel
down because the act of giving a woman an orgasm has to be taught and learned,
only through practice will you be able to master this very beautiful act. Hence
the very often asked- how do you achieve this goal of satisfying your woman,
how do you give her earth shattering orgasms every time? Believe me guys when I say this- if you can
give your woman (or any woman for that matter) earth shattering orgasms
everytime you have sex with her- you my friend, will be her hero. She will
literally do anything to make you happy and keep you in the relationship with
her. Take your woman straight to cloud nine by following these steps
v Take
time to familiarize yourself with her body. I know that just seeing that
beautiful naked body lying there waiting to be swept away by your manliness is
enough to make you let one loose but resist the temptation. You don’t want to
mess things up just because you couldn’t control yourself. Observe her
reactions to even the simplest of your touches. However long it takes for her
to reach that special place you must be willing to give her the time that she
needs.
v Get rid of your insecurities. The feeling of insecurity may
come from the fact that you find it difficult to bring her to orgasms and as a
man, you felt inadequate. Insecurities can damage your confidence and without
confidence, it can be really hard to satisfy your partner sexually. Try not to
be too hard on yourself, because most women naturally find it difficult to
orgasm during lovemaking and there are women who are not fortunate to
experience orgasms at all. Instead of blaming yourself, think of it as a
challenge and a learning process.
v Stop putting too much pressure on yourself in the bedroom.
Too much pressure can lead to one's poor performance in the bedroom. Why not
just enjoy the intimate moments in the bedroom with your partner and stop
worrying about your performance. The more you worry about it the more you will
end up doing the wrong things in the bedroom. Your partner can sense your
stress from the pressure you are putting on yourself and it will also affect
her intimacy level and performance in bed. Free yourself from any pressure if
you want to give her earth shattering orgasms.
v Honestly, discuss with your spouse about sex. To create a satisfying
sex life with your partner, it is a must to openly communicate about sex. Share
what you want in bed and what really turns you on with your partner. Openly
share even your sexual fantasies. If you are honest enough to share your most
intimate secrets with your partner, she will be obliged to give the same
honesty and share even her sexual fantasies. If you both can communicate
honestly and openly about sex, it would be easier to give her earth shattering
orgasms every lovemaking session.
v Women need longer foreplay to be ready for orgasm. If you
want to give her earth shattering orgasms, you need to physically and mentally
stimulate her. Some men have this wrong notion that just kissing and caressing
her private parts will do the trick of bringing her to orgasms. Women need more
than physical stimulation, you need to stimulate her mind too. Foreplay is not
only engaging her body but also her mind to get aroused and crazily want to
make love with you. You have to make her feel loved, admired and desired. Make
her feel that she is the sexiest woman and she never fails to turn you on.
v Learn to last longer in bed. Most men ejaculate and reach
orgasm faster than women (well naturally that’s how we are wired- don’t ask,
‘cos I don’t know why either). Women need some 18 minutes or more to reach
orgasm while men could orgasm in 2-4 minutes (some men even ejaculate in
seconds). If you will finish first before she could even reach her own orgasm,
chances are she’ll never orgasm at all. Learn to last longer and delay your
ejaculation to wait for her to orgasm together with you. Lovemaking is more
satisfying if both of you reach orgasm at the same time. It is much easier to
give her earth shattering orgasms if you can last longer in bed.
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