If you really want a girl to fall in love with you, you will have to go the extra mile. Truth is; you might not be the only one interested in her at that particular point in time. There are probably some other cool dudes who are wooing her-they want what you want (they want her to fall in love with them). Hence she might be in a little dilemma- that’s why you have to be smart and willing to take that extra step needed to ensure you’re the last thing she thinks of when she goes to bed and the very first thought that crosses her mind when she wakes up in the morning. You need to make her see you as special, as someone she can’t do without. Become an indispensable part of her world.
Making a girl fall in
love is both easy and tricky. Some guys just seem to fail no matter how hard
they try while others appear to get it right every time. If you've ever been
unfortunate at your attempt to make a girl you love so much fall in love with you
or are just trying so hard to make a
girl feel the same way for you as you feel about her. Well stop trying so hard--it ain't Rocket Science**smiles**. What you need my friend is a better perspective
to doing things. A proper way to go about it, here I will show you some easy
steps to make a girl fall deeply in love with you:
Ø TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
If you want a girl to
fall in love with you, you need to show her that you are capable of taking care
of yourself. Practice good hygiene, wear nice clothes and exercise regularly.
Keep your body good, clean, nice and strong.
Ø SHOW HER YOU HAVE LOVABLE QUALITIES
No one just wakes up and
morning and says; “I wanna fall in love with him/her”. It happens when me meet
someone with lovable qualities. Let your personality shine through make her
see the special and lovable person you are.
Ø A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR
This goes beyond just
being able to make her laugh or make people laugh. Having a good sense of humor
goes both ways. You should also be able to laugh at her jokes and also learn to
take a joke too. Nobody likes anyone that flares up when we crack joke at them.
Learn not just to make her laugh but to
laugh too.
Ø BE PLAYFUL
Don’t walk around like
the whole world is on your shoulders. Approach life with an open minded and
playful attitude don’t take things too seriously, make what would normally be a
boring routine fun- that way you radiate joy and happiness from within. Belief
me that is more charming that a pot of love portion.
Ø HAVE CONFIDENCE
Know what you are good
at and fix it into your routine let her see you exude confidence in what you do
and even when you talk. But don’t get carried away so you don’t appear cocky,
arrogant or obnoxious. It helps to make a little joke about your flaws from
time to time.
Ø GET TO KNOW HER
Getting to know her is
more than just memorizing her birthday or favorite color. Spend quality time
with her, understand her love language.
If there is something that interests her (say a sporting activity) engage in it
with her. Even if you don’t know much about it, let her teach you, just show
eagerness and enthusiasm
TAKE HER ON GREAT DATES
Take her to amazing places on your dates. Be strategic and creative when you plan your date. Take her to places that will blow her mind and at the same time allow you to bond with her.
Ø DON’T GET CLINGY
Don’t plan a date with her every day, suffocating
her or bullying her into a relationship will don’t do you any good. Don’t make
it seem like you are desperate to get her to fall in love with you. Allow her
some space in between dates but still let her know you are interested.
Ø EXPECT NOTHING
Teach yourself to expect
nothing from the girl. Remember love thrives in the absence of pressure.
Letting go of your expectations will make you more relaxed which will make you
more appealing to her than if you’re uptight and worried.
This way even if she doesn’t fall in love with
you, you won’t be utterly disappointed but if she does fall in love with you,
you will be pleasantly surprised.
Ø RESPECT HER
Try to see things from
her perspective, show her you admire and respect her opinion. Every woman likes
a man that respects her.
Ø BE HONEST
Honesty builds trust and
it is very easy to fall in love with someone you trust. Being with someone they
can trust brings about this feeling of security and that works wonders on a
woman’s psyche.
Ø BE WILLING TO LISTEN AND
COMMUNICATE
You must learn to listen
patiently and passively. Don’t be in such a hurry to make your point known.
Rather listen more to her. Recognize her
wants and needs. Be truly open to her expressions and feelings both verbalized
and held deep within.
Ø SAY NICE THINGS TO HER
Always give her good
compliments. When she does something nice or when she makes a new hair or put
on some really pretty dress. Be a sweet Gentleman; call her very early in the
morning just to her voice (tell her something like-I just wanted to start my
day with your voice) and at night before she sleeps. That way you stay on her
mind morning and night.
One last important tip guys; be
patient; love takes time to grow so try to be patient with her and also keep an
open mind- you may really want someone to fall in love with you, but make sure
you use your head as well as your heart. Love is only the starting point of a
healthy relationship. The rest depends on communication, compatibility and
commitment.
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