A first date is any type of
initial meeting between two individuals, whether or not previously acquainted.
First dates are very important to any relationship because they often set the
tone for the relationship thus it is important you create the best impression
on your first date; that is the potential relational turning point.
When planning a first date,
most guys tend to go with either dinner or a movie night-There is nothing wrong
with either, but if you don’t want to be like most guys (predictable), you have
to be more creative with your first date strategies. A good first date should
allow for conversations and connection; You ought to have a balance of both-conversation
and good connection. One quick tip; before you plan any first date, think about
her interest and personality. If she’s not the outdoorsy type, then you have no
reason planning an outdoorsy activity. If she’s not into art and culture there
is not point dragging her to a museum.
Plan your date in line with her interest. If you can make your date feel
comfortable on the date, and use these cool ideas to get her adrenaline pumping
and top it up with quality romance, there is no way she won’t want a second
date. Mix the date ideas so you can keep the date exciting, comfortable and
romantic. That said, allow me show you some amazingly creative first date ideas
that will completely blow her mind
1.
AMUSEMENT PARK: You
can take your date to an amusement park, pick a few crazy rides together and
before you know it, the chemistry will be sizzling with adrenaline.
2.
LIVE CONCERT: You can always take your date to a live concept of her
favorite band- that’s if your date is into music. This kind of gesture is
always appreciated.
3.
CARNIVALS: Carnivals
can be a little pricy but it will be totally worth it. The explosion of colors
is a wonderful thing to experience. You can spend hours together, act silly and
still have a perfect date.
4.
KARAOKE: This
is another great spot to have fun and you don’t have to be a great singer but
if you are anyways, great she’d be thrilled however, if you’re not, you could
just have a fun laughing at how terrible you sound. Either ways you still win.
5.
WATCH A GAME: If
your date is really into sports, then take them to see their favorite team
play(tip- preferable a game where their favorite team will win- you want them
in a good mood)
6.
COMEDY: Taking your date to a
stand-up comedy show is a perfect way to get them relaxed and excited. You can
even make it “more perfect” by coupling it with dinner after or during the
show.
7.
STAR GAZING: If
it’s a clear warm night, then take your date stargazing. Go with a blanket, bug
spray, a bottle of wine (and glasses of course) and telescope if you have one.
8.
WINE TASTING: Vineyard
tours are quite exciting and romantic experience. Don’t get all pro just have
fun with the whole tasting thing.
9.
BEACH: A day at the beach or
an hour walking near the waves can make both of you comfortable with each
other…don’t forget to hold hands.
10. ICE CREAM PARLOR: Take your date back to their childhood. Take your date to
an ice cream parlor and order a huge ice cream for him/her. You are sure to
bring a grin up his/her face.
11.
COOK AND EAT:
going to a cook and eat restaurant is always a wonderful experience. It will
help you bond and laugh when you goof up and awe when you cook up a perfect
little dish.
12. FLY A PLANE: Not fly, fly… You
can take your date to some “plane flying” simulation centers. It’s always fun,
the feel of piloting planes is something we all love.
13. HORSE BACK RIDING: Take your date horse-back riding; women love it because it
is such a sexy rush and men love it because it makes them feel manly.
14. HISTORICAL SITES: A trip down history lane is always a good idea. History is
interesting to virtually everyone. You can also grab a souvenir that will
ensure your date has fond memories of your first date.
15.
BOOKSTORE: If
your date is a book lover then a bookstore is perfect for a first date. There
is something about being in the midst of books to a book lover that just makes
them smile(am one so I can tell)
16. NATURE WALK: if your date is an admirer of nature then take them a very
beautiful and tranquil natural setting.
17.
AQUARIUM: Aquariums
are naturally romantic settings thus taking your date to an aquarium will bring
you guys closer.
18. MUSEUM: A museum may not be the typical date idea, but no matter
which museum you go to you are sure to find something interesting to see for a
couple of hours.
19. SHOOTING RANGE: This is adrenaline pumping at its best. If you want to get
your date all worked up before a meal, head to a rifle range and fire a few
rounds. Even if you don’t hit a target you inevitably look like a bad ass
20. HOT AIR BALLOON: This will make for an unforgettable first date. A hot air
balloon and a glass of champagne on a first date is UN-FORGETTABLE.
There you have it, 20 top first
date ideas that will wow your date. However always remember the most important
first date tip- plan your date in line with their interest. All your
efforts will be a waste if you plan something he/she has no interest in. Ensure your new sweetheart leaves the date
with something memorable (a souvenir) that way they have a lasting impression
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